December 17, 2010 The Most Revolting Thing I’ve Ever Seen
Stumbling across Tumblr on any given day I’ll find multiple sources of fashion inspiration. However, today I found the most appalling display of human nature and misguided ideals I’ve ever seen on the internet.
Thinspiration (photos of skinny girls that other girls looking to lose weight refer to often to stay motivated) in the form of captioned photos telling girls not to eat for ‘another day’, feeding you lines (no pun intended) about how you are revolting if you are consuming food, photos of gorgeous healthy slim girls in groups with bullshit captions like “Your life would be this good – if you just didn’t eat”
Here are some of the things I found most disturbing:
Don’t get me wrong; I’ve seen plenty of websites dedicated to Thinspiration before – but nothing quite so callous and dishearting at the same time. I’m not sure if I feel more sympathetic or more angry towards the person who is publicising this blog.
But let’s face it, you can get skinny by not eating; if the kind of skinny that you want to be is gaunt and muscularly deficient, the kind of skinny that will fucking kill you. You will look flabby and your stomach will bloat out into what almost resembles a beer belly; you certainly won’t have flat defined abs. You’ll end up feeling awful, you have headaches, nausea, lack of concentration, and far worse – you could end up ruining your teeth and bones and begin an early onset to multiple other health issues as you age. If you had such a great deal of self control not to eat, why not turn that into self control to eat healthy and reduce your calorie intake to a safe level and get into the gym. Not only would you feel better; you’d look better. So many of the photos on this site are of Victoria’s Secret models or girls with proper definition in their bodies – girls that quite clearly work out and eat well to have their figures, which is why I find it so heavily disturbing. Most ‘thinspiration’ shows anorexic bodies/skeleton like frames, which at least is not misleading of how you would look if you give up eating. To give the hope that a girl would ever look like a Victoria’s Secret model from starving herself is beyond stupid.
On the other hand though, I saw that Jessica Biel rated #3 in the men’s Top 10 Celebrity Bikini Bodies of 2010 – which didn’t surprise me at all, but what I did find interesting though was the reasoning behind why they have chosen her, and I thought it was so good I had to share:
“A self-proclaimed gym buff, Jessica Biel has the kind of body that makes us never forget to renew our gym memberships, if only in hopes of running into a woman as toned as Jessica while blasting our pecs at the gym (or, you know, sipping protein-infused fruit smoothies at the gym bar while talking about blasting our pecs). Jessica, who recently climbed Mount Kilimanjaro, is proof that a woman who works hard for her body is way hotter than a woman who just says no to white flour. Besides, isn’t it more fun to be with a woman who can kick back with beer and hot dogs at a baseball game and who still look this good while doing it? That’s at least what we presume her boyfriend Justin Timberlake says”
I have so much that I’d really like to broach in regards to this topic. The toned vs skeleton thin body type debate is age old and could go on forever. But I’ve decided to leave it at the fact that I think this kind of stuff is sad and awfully worrying. Teenage girls are easily the most impressionable kind and to put this sort of irrational thinking on the internet is disturbing. It’s one thing to have an eating disorder but when you are letting your eating disorder effect and influence other people – you really are causing a rippling effect. I understand people have the right to seek out whatever they like on the internet, and that alot of girls seek thinspiration but writing messages on them only further etches in problems that some of these girls possibly did not have to begin with.
Does anyone here disagree with me? Or have anything they want to add?
Tags: anorexia, bulimia, calories, eating disorders, help, jessica biel, revolting, skinny, thin, thinspiration, toned
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Permalink # KittyKitty said
That is su unbelievably disturbing, and shows that as far as the Internet is concerned, no one has any responsibility when it comes to how much harm they can potentially do to others.
So so sad and scary. I will never look at Candice Swanepoel in the same way!
Permalink # Cooper said
Poor Candice Swanepoel though – I would absolutely hate for anyone to have defaced a picture of me like that when she’s clearly such a role model for ideal healthy figures.
Permalink # Amalfi Girl (EatRunHaveFun.blogspot) said
“Thinspo” has always disturbed me. These are, as you said, particularly hideous examples (as far as the sentiments written over the pictures go). Why do so many women starve themselves? Why keep yourself weak? Yuck.
Permalink # Scarlett said
Quite frankly, the vast majority of girls lurking on pro-ana sites and posting (sometimes intentionally-controversial) “thinspo” do not have eating disorders. Screwed up body image, maybe, and perhaps some unhealthy diet ideas, but the truly eating-disorders do not need to be “inspired” or “thinspired” or “reverse-thinspired” or told by cute quotes how to get through the day without eating. And anyone glorifying an eating disorder clearly has never lived with one. Yes, the girls in the tumblr you featured are thin–perhaps too thin, though that isn’t mine to judge–but they also don’t look the way an eating disordered individual looks. Your written description is much more accurate.
By the way, I’ve lived with an eating disorder for 10 years, and I find all forms of “thinspo” to be ridiculous. And in my opinion, Jessica Biel et al are much more attractive than haute couture models or the truly eating disordered. EDs are psychological illnesses, not beauty quests.
Permalink # Cooper said
Well said. And I hope that when you say that you have lived with it for 10 years – that means you are in the recovering stages, and are well on your way to being healthy again.
I think it’s good evidence that you would be if you are seeing Jessica Biel and more healthy role models as much more attractive than haute couture models. The biggest step, if you ask me, is changing what your ideals of beauty are and then you find yourself changing your lifestyle the more you educate yourself.
That’s the saddest part about this sort of thing – the lack of education these poor girls have.
Permalink # Tina said
Yeah unfortunately you see it all too often 😦 The amount of times I’ve gone to Google images and found those pics is disturbing! I first stumbled across those types of websites when I was a teenager and you are right, teenagers are way too impressionable to see that kind of stuff.
So sad 😦
Permalink # Amanda said
Sad, worrying and disgraceful. I feel so sorry for the girls that have to endure this rotten disease. And true – it creates a domino effect when people deface images of beautiful, fit, toned women. So misleading and immature. 😦